“Challenge your thoughts” - they say.
“What is the evidence that this thought is true” - they ask.
“Imagine your thoughts floating away on a cloud” - they encourage.
These strategies can be helpful - but they only target your MIND. They target your thoughts.
But when your body is in a state of fear, stress, and unsafety - it can not effectively engage in these cognitive strategies.
The body is busy trying to figure out how to keep you safe. So it is in hyperdrive - figuring out how to fight off the threat or run away from the threat. Or the body is in a freeze state because what you are dealing with is too much for the body to cope so it shuts down.
We have to learn to soothe the body to show it that it is safe.
Once the body feels safe, it can then rechannel the energy to do the higher-order, cognitive work - such as challenging and detaching from thoughts.
Some ways to soothe the body include:
✨ humming
✨ taking a cold shower
✨ stretching/yoga
✨ breath work
✨ connecting with someone that makes you feel safe (co-regulation)
✨ spending time in nature
✨ shaking off pent up energy (literally shaking the body, jumping up and down,dance)
✨ running (tapping into the urge to flee)
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