When we dissociate, it is the brain trying to protect itself.
The trauma, distress, emotions, and bodily sensations are too intense for the brain/body to deal with.
So it “shuts down” by disconnecting from bodily sensations, experiences, memories, and their surroundings.
To reconnect with our bodies, we must show the body that feeling/experiencing is safe.
We do this slowly. For me - yoga/stretching was a way for me to feel my body again. It showed me I can feel the sensations my body creates and that is is SAFE TO DO SO.
This practice bringing me back home to my body.
Here are some other practices to help make your body a safe space:
✨Stretching
✨ Yoga (yin yoga is my fav)
✨ Self hug (heavening technique)
✨ Giving your body attention when it’s hungry, tired, thirsty, needs to use the bathroom (you are showing your body you will listen to it’s signals rather than ignore them)
✨Feeling your feet when walking
✨Naming what’s around you (grounding you in your surroundings)
✨Tasting your food/tech free meals
✨Stimulating vagus nerve (eg. Humming, breathing in slowly + holding + exhaling slowly and longer than the inhale)
✨Stroking soft/soothing fabrics or an animal
✨ Dance
✨Shake (release tension from body)
✨Spend time in nature (this is grounding - we are a part of nature - we are animals)
I hope you find some of these helpful. Remember to approach these slowly. Celebrate all successes. And that a little progress/time is better than no progress/time devoted to these exercises.
Once we learn how to feel safe in our ourselves, we can learn how to feel safe around others.
Come home to your body 💜
Disclaimer: some signs of dissociation/depersonalization also show up in anxiety, depression, ADHD etc. please use this post as a guide only and seek professional help to learn more.
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