🥴Self-sabotage is a common relationship k!ller and here’s why:
Neuroscience teaches us that Trauma changes our brain. It cause our responses to regular degular situations to be the same as how we would respond in dangerous ones.
Love is risky. And sometimes a brain that has unresolved trauma will tell you to run, hide, or fight against it.
This can look like making up excuses for why you can’t be with someone, hurting them before they hurt you, looking for negative things in them, or using work as a buffer for intimacy.
Whatever your self-sabotage looks like, I want to teach you how to trick your brain out of it.
I haven’t announced yet, but my upcoming workshop, How Trauma is
K!lling Your Love Life, will teach you about my Trauma Languages and how to fight it.
It’s not free, but it will change your life! Just DM me “Workshop” for the link to register!
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