Today I received this special card in the post from @willowfoundation Mum was a devoted supporter of Willow following the special day they organised for me after my own cancer treatment and surgery. She saw first hand and deeply understood the incredible difference that special days had and the importance of creating precious and lasting memories for the individuals and their families. She was also very much a keen supporter of the work of @macmillancancer and was incredibly proud of the support I give to people affected by cancer as a volunteer. It seemed only fitting ( although also ironic given Mum's sudden cancer diagnosis and passing) that Dad and I chose these two amazing charities for people to donate to in her memory.
£860 has been donated overall via Mum's memorial page on Much Loved. I know that many of you have very generously made a donation in her name. Thankyou from the bottom of Dad's and my hearts for your messages, thoughts and kindness. We miss her so terribly and are still reeling from shock. We are however delighted to know that her legacy is everlasting in so many ways but especially through the donations which have been made. In both life and death Mum continues to help many more people affected by cancer. This would undoubtedly make her smile and feel overwhelming happy.
The card also beautifully matches the first of my Cornflowers which I've cut today and the second of my @emma_bridgewater sale purchases which arrived yesterday💙💜
Wishing you all a lovely weekend whatever the weather brings! xxx
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Do you ever feel like life isn’t what you thought it would be?
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It’s been hard for me to accept that I am 39-years old (40 in a couple weeks!), single, & childless.
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Probably because I never pictured my life like this at 39-years old.
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I’m not exactly sure where I thought I would be, but I definitely saw a husband and some kids running around...
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The universe has a funny way of keeping us on our toes doesn’t it?
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When life doesn’t go our way, it’s easy to get angry with ourselves, with someone else, or with the Universe...especially if you start imagining what you could have done differently or start comparing yourself to others.
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You feel frustrated, cheated, and ready to give up…
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You wonder, “What do I do when I’ve done my best and I’ve tried everything I can to put myself out there?
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The answer is...SURRENDER. Surrendering does not mean you’re giving up your desires or long-term happiness.
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It means opening your heart and letting go of the need to control the situation.
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According to havingtime.com, “surrendering means sitting back and relaxing your grip...admitting that you are not in control...agreeing to yourself and to the Universe that you are no longer trying to manipulate the circumstances.”
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Surrendering is not easy, but it’s often the only way to move forward.
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Surrendering is the most powerful action you can take to achieve a breakthrough.
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Have I surrendered? For the most part yes...what is meant to be in my life, will be. I have realized that I do have more control over my love life than I thought...I’m surrendering, but also trying to be more open to love...❤️
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Leave a comment and share your surrender story!
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