β€ At times, we all feel we aren't doing good enough.
β€ The truth is: "Yes you could be doing better maybe, but at least you're trying and that's what matters the most." ππ»
β€ Sometimes, we become too harsh on ourselves. We raise our expectations from ourselves very high.
β€ The reality is: "Hey you're working hard enough. You deserve appreciation." πͺπ»
β€ We sometimes even see other people of our age achieving so much & start doubting if we're doing good enough in our lives. If you're doing this right now, I request you: PLEASE STOP !!! βοΈπ
β€ Do you even think the people you're comparing yourselves to had or have the same life conditions, background as you have? Did they face the similar problems? Maybe they had an unfair advantage?
β€ Hey fam, comparison isn't good! Let's learn to be happy about other people's successes. It's divine honestly!!!πͺ
β€ Everyone's journey is different. It's their time now. Your time shall also come. Meanwhile let's be happy and cherish every moment βοΈ
Pc. @bushra_areej
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So, it was my FIRST ever birthday π away from home π‘
β€ Initially, I had doubts how it would go
β€ My expectations weren't very high tbh
β€ Also, the events initially weren't giving a hint that the day would go well:
β€ I finally did find the digits balloons π after failing to find them after 2-3 visits
β€ The zero balloon didn't get inflated properly π
β€ It was raining π§ on the morning of my birthday which gave a hint I won't be able to celebrate it properly
β€ My friend whom I badly wanted to have with me at my birthday somehow didn't wake up in the morning and didn't come to university (she did come later on hehe xD)
β€ But anyways after that everything was so awesome
β€ We had an amazing day out π₯³
β€ We cut the cake π
β€ We enjoyeddd so muchh
β€ And this 1st ever birthday at hostel has become a memorable experience for me
β€ Also, guys I request you all to spare 10 precious minutes from your life to give my birthday vlog on YouTube a watch (this is a preview of the vlog). I'm sure you'll enjoy watching it. Please give me your feedback in the form of comments or even in DMs if you don't want to comment. I would love to hear from you guys π₯Ίππ»ππ». Channel link is in my Instagram bio.
β€ Also, guys thank you so much once again for all the lovely wishes. Ngl they were the highlight of my day. I mean the love I received was overwhelming π₯Ί.
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π£ Fear of being JUDGED? Read or MISS OUTβΌοΈ
β€ How many things/ideas have you given up because of the fear of "what will they think about me"βοΈ
β€ You can think of many examplesπ, right? It's ποΈ You're not alone in this
β€ You know the momentβ°οΈwe realise that the judgement they form about us defines them more than it defines us, life becomes much more peaceful
β€ I mean just ask yourself "Is judging someone on the basis of just a chunk of the whole context that we know a good traitβοΈ"
β€ If I'm βοΈvely judging you because of some superficial things I'm seeingπ, it's not you who're at fault, but me. At some point, sooner or later, I'll realise this & work to get rid of this bad trait.
β€ Okay, I know what you're thinking... Unfortunately, those who'll never realise are the people who're judging not only you but also everyone else who's just acting "differently" than they would. Andd if they're happy with it, why spoil your happiness because of them?
β€ I mean just think for a while if someone talks negative about almost everyone, how likely are you going to pay heed to their opinion about anyone?π€Their opinion shall lose value because they're declaring everyone bad in some way, which is never practically possibleπ€·π»ββοΈ
β€ Mostly, the ones judging you are the ones who've never done what you're doing. Since it's "different" than what they're doing, they consider it wrong βοΈ. But, come on, let's face it everyone of us is different & ultimately it all comes down to acceptance of those differences. Again their not accepting the differences is their fault and not yoursβΌοΈ
β€ So, why should we stop following our passions for their "faults"? Why should we give them the power to rule our minds & disturb our peace?
β€ Today they'll judge you & tomorrow they'll move on to judging someone else. They're doing their work (judging) na so why should you stopβοΈyour work (what your heart wants to do but you aren't doing because of the fear of judgement)
β Drop your favourite emoji in the comments if you agreeπ
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